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2/8/2016

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One of the styles of yoga I practice is Yin yoga.  It is named after the yin energy that sits across from yang energy.  The two energies balance each other and hold each other up.  These two energies expand in all directions.  Even as they expand outwardly, they move toward each other.  Where they meet, they create a union of a balanced complete energy.

These two energies reside within every living thing.  We generally experience Yin energy as passive, cool, soft, grounding into earth.  It is the feminine energy.  Yang, in contrast, is expereinced as, warm, active, expanding, strong, rising up.  It is the masculine energy.

Initially, I thought that the practice of Yin yoga was to move all the way out to the edge of yin energy....which may still be a way of practicing.....but for me, I realized that becoming too loose in my joints was a looming possibility and as I serched for answers it became clear to me that I was headed toward the wrong edge.....

Another way to practice Yin yoga is to explore the edge of where these two energies meet.  We can practice finding the edge of lax and taut; of holding and releasing; of stretching and drawing in; of grounding and rising within our bodies.  In Yin practice we establish  the yin side and approach the yang.  Conversely, when we do a yang practice we approach the yin from the yang.  In each practice, the challenge is approaching the energy that is not already present.

 Discovering the middle edge had been transformative for me.

When we experience the outer edge of the Yin Yang circle we can recognize the imbalance of residing and even increasing the pure Yin or Yang energy.  

 There are times, for sure, when we all need to draw upon a predominantly yin or yang energy in order to get something done or to accept something that is not ours to change.  But is taking up residence out on one of these sides going to take us where we really want to go?

Maybe we don't always know where we want to go specifically, but in general we may.  As, for me, I have declared that I want to expand into limitless possibility......

This place of the meeting of the two sides surely has the potential to be demanding and even frightening.  But the rewards of bravely moving toward the center edge are great.  When we are balanced on this edge we have the ability to be kind and firm; to be available and not a doormat; to be still and creative; to care deeply and not grasp.  This  edge has the potential to be the place of integrated power and expansion of possibility whether we are on our mats, in our homes or workplaces.  

Along this border resides the genesis of expansion of the outer boundary.  This center edge is the gathering place of two complimentary forces that allow each of us to break free of the current and move out into possibility.....

...with the strength and stability of drawing in.

It is the edge of dark and light, intuition and logic, cool and hot, hard and soft.......

Here, on this edge, we find the string to our kite.

And soar with connection.


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Dear Sheri.....

2/5/2016

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Earlier this week my friend flew in to town to bury her younger brother.

He died too young at only 22.

On Tuesday it was February 2.  I was aware of the date and of the anniversary of my own loss.

But her loss was fresh....her pain was sharp compared to the older  and dulling pain of loosing my baby 7 years ago.

We, her friends, gathered around her last night at the funeral.  We marveled at her strength and poise.  She stood straight at the front as she delivered beautiful words about him, his life, all of life and the neverending nature and energy of the soul.  We could see her ache and how beautifully she showed up for him, their siblings and parents.

As I sat in my seat I remembered the beginning part of grieving.....

I remembered so many loud sobs and the pain in my throat......the headaches from crying too long and the swollen eyes looking back at me in the mornings.  I remembered thinking that the vastness of this pain would never subside.

After the service my friend burried her face in my shoulder to release those same loud and deep sobs that come up from your gut.  All I could say was that I know that pain.....

and......

Breathe

Tonight on February 5 I am grateful for my experience.  

Tonight I know that she, who never lived on this earth, taught us things we may not have learned any other way.  We have all been influenced by her existence though it was very short....we all owe her a debt of gratitude.   Surely, experience is the only road to authenticity.

Tomorrow my family will go to the place we scattered Isabel's ashes.  It's our favorite beach.  We will go and play and celebrate her and express gratitude for her role in our family.  She has a unique place in each of our lives.

And we will feel gratitude for the most difficult experience we've had so far......... 

Dear Sheri.....may the gratitude for this most difficult experience come to you soon and may you breathe easy as it does.



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    Lucy Facer Bernstein

    I am a committed yogi and community member. I believe in the goodness of humankind and that as we discover our ultimate connectedness we can all find peace....within and without.  

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